Kingman, Kansas
The Still Flame
Sanctuary
Dennie's Warrior Wings
A sanctuary of quiet strength for survivors of domestic violence, coercive control, and human trafficking.
If you're in immediate danger, call 911
National DV Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
A Safe Space
We believe every person deserves safety, dignity, and the quiet courage to rebuild. Still Flame is that space.
Warrior Packs
Care packages filled with essentials, affirmation cards, and healing tools — because warriors need supplies.
Resources & Hope
Curated national and local resources. Hotlines, shelters, legal aid, and support — all in one place.
"A still flame doesn't rage or roar. It glows steadily, quietly — and it never goes out."
Our Story
The mission behind Still Flame Sanctuary & Dennie's Warrior Wings
The Still Flame
The Still Flame Sanctuary was born from a simple truth: survivors don't need to be saved — they need to be seen.
Based in Kingman, Kansas, we are an online resource hub dedicated to shedding light on domestic violence, coercive control, and human trafficking. We believe that awareness is the first step toward change, and that every person who finds their way here deserves to feel safe, supported, and empowered.
The name "Still Flame" represents the quiet, unshakeable strength that lives inside every survivor. It's not loud. It's not flashy. But it never, ever goes out.
Dennie's Warrior Wings
Dennie's Warrior Wings is our outreach arm — named in honor of the warriors who fight battles no one sees. Every survivor carries wings, even when they can't feel them.
Through Warrior Wings, we create and distribute Warrior Packs — care packages filled with essential items, affirmation cards, meditation guides, and journal prompts. These packs are designed to remind survivors that they are seen, they matter, and they are never alone.
What Is Coercive Control?
Coercive control is a pattern of behavior that seeks to take away a person's liberty, autonomy, and sense of self. It includes:
- Isolation — cutting someone off from friends, family, and support systems
- Monitoring — tracking movements, communications, and daily activities
- Financial control — restricting access to money, employment, or resources
- Intimidation — using threats, anger, or unpredictability to create fear
- Gaslighting — making someone question their own reality and sanity
- Degradation — eroding self-worth through constant criticism and humiliation
Coercive control is abuse. It doesn't always leave visible marks, but its damage runs deep. If any of this sounds familiar, our resources page can help.
Our Vision
We envision a world where:
- Every survivor knows they are not alone
- Resources are easy to find and free to access
- Communities stand together against abuse in all its forms
- The still flame inside every person is honored and protected
Resources Directory
National and local resources organized by need. You are not alone.
Domestic Violence
National Domestic Violence Hotline
24/7 confidential support for anyone experiencing domestic violence.
loveisrespect
Resources for young people (ages 12-24) about healthy relationships and dating abuse.
WomensLaw.org
Legal information and support for survivors of domestic violence and abuse.
Human Trafficking
National Human Trafficking Hotline (Polaris Project)
24/7 confidential support for trafficking survivors and tips on suspected trafficking.
Polaris Project
Leading anti-trafficking organization. Data, resources, and support services.
GEMS (Girls Educational & Mentoring Services)
Support for commercially sexually exploited and domestically trafficked girls and young women.
Sexual Assault
RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)
The nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. Free, confidential 24/7 support.
Child Protection
Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline
24/7 hotline for crisis intervention, information, and referrals for child abuse.
Darkness to Light
Empowering adults to prevent, recognize, and react responsibly to child sexual abuse.
Coercive Control
The National Center on Domestic Violence
Information about coercive control laws, recognition, and safety planning.
One Love Foundation
Education on recognizing unhealthy relationship behaviors including coercive control.
Kingman & South Central Kansas
Kansas Coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence (KCSDV)
Statewide coalition providing advocacy, training, and resources for Kansas survivors.
Kansas Crisis Hotline
Statewide crisis line connecting you to your nearest Kansas crisis center.
Wichita Area Sexual Assault Center (WASAC)
Serving the greater Wichita area and surrounding South Central Kansas communities.
StepStone (formerly Harbor House)
Domestic violence services for Reno, Kingman, and Harvey Counties including shelter and advocacy.
Kansas Legal Services
Free legal help for low-income Kansans including protection orders and family law.
Warrior Packs
Because warriors need supplies for the journey ahead
Every survivor is a warrior. And every warrior deserves to know they're not fighting alone. Warrior Packs are care packages created with love — filled with essentials, comfort, and reminders of your incredible strength.
The Essentials
Personal care items, hygiene products, warm socks, and comfort basics — the things you need when starting fresh.
- Personal hygiene kit
- Warm socks & comfort items
- Snacks & hydration
- Small first aid supplies
Affirmation Cards
A deck of hand-designed affirmation cards with messages of strength, hope, and self-worth. Carry them with you.
- 20+ unique affirmation cards
- Survivor-centered messages
- Pocket-sized for daily use
- Beautiful, uplifting designs
Meditation & Calm
Guided breathing exercises, grounding techniques, and meditation prompts for moments when you need peace.
- Breathing exercise guide card
- Grounding technique cards
- Aromatherapy item
- Stress relief tool
Journal Prompts
A small journal with guided prompts for self-reflection, healing, and rediscovering who you are.
- Guided healing journal
- 30+ reflection prompts
- Safety planning pages
- Personal goal-setting section
Every Pack Is Made With Love
Warrior Packs are assembled by hand in Kingman, Kansas. Each one is a labor of love — a tangible reminder that someone out there cares about your journey.
Interested in receiving a Warrior Pack or helping us create them? Reach out to us.
Get In TouchAffirmation & Meditation Corner
A moment of peace, just for you
Affirmation Cards
Click or tap the card to reveal a new affirmation. Take a deep breath and let it sink in.
Tap for your affirmation
You are worthy of love and respect.
Breathing Exercise
Box breathing helps calm your nervous system. Follow the circle — breathe in, hold, breathe out, hold. Repeat as many times as you need.
Press Start
Grounding Exercise: 5-4-3-2-1
When anxiety feels overwhelming, use your senses to ground yourself in the present moment.
Things You Can See
Look around and name five things you can see right now. A wall, a shadow, light on the floor, your hands, a window.
Things You Can Touch
Notice four things you can physically feel. The fabric on your skin, the floor under your feet, the air on your face.
Things You Can Hear
Listen for three sounds. A distant car, the hum of a fan, birds, your own breathing.
Things You Can Smell
Notice two scents. Fresh air, coffee, soap, fabric — anything your nose picks up.
Thing You Can Taste
Notice one taste. The inside of your mouth, a sip of water, the remnant of a meal.
Meditation Prompts
Safe Place Visualization
Close your eyes. Imagine a place where you feel completely safe and at peace. It could be real or imagined — a warm room, a quiet forest, a beach at sunrise. Notice the colors, the sounds, the temperature. Stay there as long as you need. This place is always yours.
Body Scan
Starting from the top of your head, slowly bring your attention down through your body. Your forehead... your jaw... your shoulders... let each area soften. Your chest... your stomach... your hands... your legs... your feet. Wherever you find tension, breathe into it gently and let it release.
Candle Flame Meditation
Imagine a small, still flame — like a candle in a quiet room. Watch it glow. It doesn't flicker or waver. It simply burns, steadily and peacefully. You are that flame. Quiet strength. Unwavering light. Let everything else fall away, and just be still.
Get Help
You don't have to face this alone. Help is available right now.
Crisis Text Line
Free, 24/7 crisis counseling via text
Safety Planning
If you're preparing to leave an unsafe situation, here are some things to consider:
📱 Your Phone
If your phone is being monitored, consider using a trusted friend's phone or a library computer. Clear your browser history after visiting this site.
💼 Important Documents
If safe to do so, gather IDs, birth certificates, social security cards, financial documents, and medications.
👥 Trusted People
Identify at least one person you trust — a friend, family member, neighbor, or coworker who can help in an emergency.
🏠 Safe Places
Know where you can go. A shelter, a friend's home, a public place. Have a bag packed if possible.
Reach Still Flame Sanctuary
We are an awareness and resource hub based in Kingman, Kansas. While we are not a crisis center, we are here to connect you with the right resources and support.
Location: Kingman, Kansas
Mission: Domestic violence, coercive control, and human trafficking awareness
Warrior Packs: Learn about our care packages
Important: The Still Flame Sanctuary is an awareness and resource hub. We are not a crisis center or shelter. If you are in immediate danger, please call 911 or your local emergency services. The resources listed on this site are maintained by their respective organizations.